Princess Diana and Prince Charles’ Wedding: Everything to Know

More than 40 years have passed since Prince Charles and Princess Diana wed on July 29, 1981.

The grand ceremony took place at St. Paul’s Cathedral in London and carried a price tag of about $48 million (equivalent to roughly $170 million today). A record-breaking 750 million viewers across 74 countries tuned in to witness the event, which also marked the first time in 300 years that a British citizen married an heir to the throne, per Hello!.

Their extravagant wedding was seemingly a dream come true for the bride. “I remember being so in love with my husband that I couldn’t take my eyes off him,” she later told Andrew Morton for his 1992 book, Diana: Her True Story in Her Own Words. “I just absolutely thought I was the luckiest girl in the world. He was going to look after me.”

The groom was also full of optimism, reportedly writing in a letter to a friend, per Express, “There were several times when I was perilously close to crying from the sheer joy of it all.”

Though the pair would ultimately divorce in 1996, just one year ahead of Diana’s untimely death, their wedding day lives on in history.

Here’s everything to know about Princess Diana and Prince Charles’ 1981 wedding.

They received 3,000 gifts from their wedding registry

Though The New York Times reported that the couple received roughly 3,000 presents between the time of their engagement and their big day, they also had a secret registry, according to Vanity Fair. Approval was needed by Buckingham Palace to view the list at General Trading Company, which reportedly included everything from wine coolers and bed trays to gardening furniture.

In addition to their chosen items, they received several high-profile gifts from important wedding guests, like the engraved Steuben glass bowl they were gifted by the Reagans, the Art Deco clock they got from Cartier and the diamond-and-sapphire parure of a watch, bracelet, pendant, ring and earrings Diana was given by the Crown Prince Fahd of Saudi Arabia.

Princess Diana and Prince Charles had their wedding rehearsal two days before the ceremony

After an hour-long rehearsal of the nuptials at the wedding venue of St. Paul’s Cathedral in London, the couple danced at a gala ball hosted by Queen Elizabeth II at Buckingham Palace two nights before their wedding, along with the 1,400 family members and guests in attendance — including Nancy Reagan, according to The New York Times. A pared-down dinner for 90 followed, after which the group parted ways.

The country’s largest fireworks display in more than two centuries was also held on the eve of the wedding, drawing hundreds of thousands of people to Hyde Park — including Prince Charles, who lit the first bonfire.

Diana did not join in the celebrations, spending the night at Clarence House with her sisters and bridal party in order to get up for her 6:30 a.m. wedding day call. According to journalist Penny Junor’s book The Duchess: The Untold Story, her future husband sent her a gift from Buckingham Palace in the form of a signet ring bearing his Prince of Wale feathers, along with a note that read, “I am so proud of you and when you come up, I’ll be there at the altar for you tomorrow. Just look ’em in the eye and knock them dead.”

Astrologer Penny Thornton, however, claimed in an ITV documentary that the royal also had an unpleasant confession for his bride-to-be.

“One of the most shocking things that Diana told me was that the night before the wedding Charles told her that he didn’t love her,” Thornton said. “I think Charles didn’t want to go into the wedding on a false premise. He wanted to square it with her and it was devastating for Diana.”

They got married at St. Paul’s Cathedral

The pair’s venue choice of St. Paul’s Cathedral marked the first royal affair to be held there since 1501.

In addition to its enormous seating (St. Paul’s holds 3,500 wedding guests to Westminster Abbey’s 2,000), Prince Charles gave some insight into the venue choice while speaking to British television networks. According to the royal, the cathedral was chosen in part for its “spectacular” acoustics, which he felt would provide guests with a “stirring, dramatic and noisy” sound.

”If you have something rather quiet, you start hearing your ankles cricking, you know what I mean?” he reportedly asked.

Beyond that, he is said to have reasoned that it had room for an orchestra, a world-famous choir and was “more beautiful” than Westminster Abbey, according to the 1998 book The Real Diana by Lady Colin Campbell.

More than 3,000 people attended Princess Diana and Prince Charles’ wedding

Among the 3,500 who attended the pair’s nuptials were many world leaders, including Princess Grace Kelly of Monaco, Reagan, Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher, the Queen, Prince Philip, Princess Anne and Mark Philips, to name a few.

Also in attendance was Prince Charles’ future wife, Queen Camilla.

Princess Diana’s wedding dress had a 25-foot train

Princess Diana’s gown, which was crafted in the space of three months, was made with ivory silk taffeta that was dyed and woven ivory (instead of pure white) and decorated with ornate, hand-embroidery, with no less than 10,000 micro pearls.

Though its massive 25-foot-long train was undoubtedly its defining feature, it also featured puffy sleeves, a ruffled necklace and a gorgeous lace trim, which came from a bag of scraps that was acquired by designers David and Elizabeth Emanuel at auction. As it turns out, the scraps also turned out to have a royal history, as an expert recognized the antique lace from the bodice of dress from the reign of Queen Mary — Prince Charles’ great-grandmother.

“It was all about drama and making Diana a fairytale princess,” designer Elizabeth Emanuel explained to British Vogue in September 2020. “The gown was typical of early ’80s style — overblown, romantic, flouncy — but we had to get it right because we knew it would go down in history.”

Beyond its obvious charms, the dress — Diana’s “something new” — featured several special details that couldn’t be seen by the naked eye, including a blue bow inside the bodice (her “something blue”) and a tiny gold horseshoe that was sewn in for good luck.

“We only told her on the wedding day,” David told Hello! of the charm in November 2020. “She didn’t know about the horseshoe for good luck, [but] she was very touched. She was traditional.”

Elizabeth and David went to great lengths to keep Diana’s dress a secret, deliberately placing bits of unused fabric in the trash for the press to find, according to “Royal Style in the Making” exhibit curator Matthew Storey.

David also confirmed the design for an erroneous sketch of the gown to a Woman’s Wear Daily reporter, who approached him on the morning of the couple’s wedding. “I don’t think they forgave me for one year,” he told E! News of the incident in June 2017.

As for the real sketch, the designer told Hello! magazine, “As soon as [Diana’s mother] Mrs. Shand Kydd saw it and she loved it, we ripped up the design as we didn’t want people to see it.”

With so much interest in the bride’s wedding gown, designers Elizabeth and David Emanuel prepared a second dress in the event that the original was leaked ahead of schedule.

“At the time we wanted to make absolutely sure that the dress was a surprise,” Elizabeth told PEOPLE in 2011. “Had the secret of the real dress got out it’s possible that Diana would actually have worn this one.”

Princess Diana’s tiara was a family heirloom

For her “something borrowed,” Princess Diana had her pick of options, as the Queen offered to lend her the Queen Mary Lover’s Knot tiara that has since been worn by Kate Middleton. She ultimately chose her family’s own Spencer tiara, which was worn by her sisters, Lady Sarah and Lady Jane, for their weddings, as well as her former sister-in-law, Victoria Lockwood, who wore it for her nuptials to Diana’s brother, Charles Spencer.

The piece itself also has its roots in history, as it’s comprised of several pieces of jewelry, including end pieces from a bauble of Viscountess Frances Manby. The central part, meanwhile, comes from a wedding present that was given to Diana’s grandma, Lady Cynthia Hamilton, on her wedding day to Albert Spencer.

Unfortunately for Diana, it also caused her a bit of pain. As her brother revealed to Entertainment Tonight in 2010, “I just remember she had a cracking headache too because she wasn’t used to wearing a tiara all morning.”

Charles Spencer is the current owner of the tiara and was most recently exhibited by Sotheby’s for the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee in 2022, along with roughly 40 other royal and aristocratic tiaras.

Princess Diana had two bouquets

Like her dress designers, Princess Diana’s florist was prepared in the event of a disaster, making not one, but two bouquets of gardenias, tephanotis, odontolglossum orchid, lily of the valley, Earl Mountbatten roses, freesia, veronica, ivy, myrtle and trasdescantia.

After the Queen lost the flowers during her own wedding, she started the tradition of having two identical bouquets made to prevent a similar mishap.

“We made two bouquets,” head florist David Longman revealed to Express in May 2018. “The first one had to be delivered at 8 o’clock to Buckingham Palace,” he said. “We had a police escort motorcyclist who took us all through the city to the Palace. Then we came back, and by that time they had finished the second bouquet and back we went again.”

Princess Diana had five bridesmaids

The royal couple’s wedding party was made up of two pageboys (Lord Nicholas Windsor and Edward van Cutsem) and five bridesmaids, including Diana’s niece, Lady Sarah Armstrong-Jones (now Chatto), Diana’s favorite former student, Clementine Hambro, Charles’ goddaughter, India Hicks, Catherine Cameron and Sarah-Jane Gaselee. “Each bridesmaid had been chosen for personal reasons of the bride and groom,” Hicks would later explain to Harper’s Bazaar in May 2018.

According to Penny Junor’s book The Duchess: Camila Parker Bowles and the Love Affair That Rocked the Crown, Parker Bowles’ son, Tom Parker Bowles, who is Charles’ godson, was vetoed from the wedding party by Diana. “She agreed to several of his other godchildren, but there was a big scene about Tom Parker Bowles and Charles backed down,” the book stated.

The bridal attendants dressed in outfits similar to Diana, with taffeta satin, lace trim and yellow sashes. Hambro, then 5, and Cameron, 6, were the youngest of the group, and also wore flower crowns to match their bouquets.

At one point, Hambro, the great-grandaughter of Winston Churchill, had a misstep, falling and bursting into tears. In April 2018, she recalled to Today that Diana asked her if she “bumped her bottom,” to which she replied, “No, I bumped my head.”

Princess Diana and Prince Charles each made mistakes during their vows

Diana walked down the aisle on the arm of her father, Earl Edward John Spencer, despite the unsteadiness he faced from a stroke he had suffered three years prior.

The Princess of Wales broke from tradition when she decided to leave the word “obey” out of her vows to Prince Charles from the Anglican Book of Common Prayer, which dates back to 1662. “Lady Diana has chosen to follow the new ritual of the Church of England, and she will promise in the ceremony at St. Paul’s Cathedral only to ‘love him, comfort him, honor and keep him, in sickness and in health,’ ” The New York Times reported ahead of the pair’s nuptials.

According to the paper, the decision was one the couple made together after “very serious” discussions with Archbishop of Canterbury, Dr. Robert Runcie.

Despite their careful planning, the royal couple’s vow recital didn’t exactly go swimmingly. Diana accidentally referred to Prince Charles, whose full name is Prince Charles Philip Arthur George, as Prince Philip Charles. Charles, for his part, mistakenly offered Diana “thy goods” instead of the more traditional “my worldly goods.”

After exchanging their vows, the couple was taken back to Buckingham Palace by way of a State Landau carriage that dated back to 1902, which was first used by King Edward VIII during his coronation procession through London. The same carriage would later transport Prince William and Kate Middleton from their wedding venue of Westminster Abbey to Buckingham Palace.

600,000 spectators lined the streets of London to catch a glimpse of them as they passed by, per the BBC.

In addition to the verbal flubs both Charles and Diana made, the groom forgot to kiss his bride following their vow exchange. To make up for it, the royal couple gave the people a show by sharing a very public kiss on the balcony of Buckingham Palace — a tradition that would later be followed by Prince William and Kate Middleton.

They had 27 wedding cakes

Before the couple jetted off for their honeymoon, they celebrated their monumental moment with a far smaller group of loved ones: Just 120 of the cathedral’s 3,500 guests were invited to the gathering at Buckingham Palace.

There, they were treated to an epic feast that included such lavish dishes as brill in lobster sauce and Suprême de Volaille Princesse de Galles, a play on a chicken breast stuffed with lamb mousse, wrapped in brioche and topped off with Madeira sauce and asparagus tips. It was named for Diana herself, who loved chicken.

​​The couple had not one, not two, but a whopping 27 wedding cakes for guests to enjoy at their intimate breakfast ceremony, with the main cake measuring a towering five feet high and bearing the coat of arms of both the bride and groom, along with their initials and a sprinkling of roses, lilies of the valley and orchids. All in all, it weighed 200 pounds, according to Eater.

Following the excitement, Diana shared a sweet moment with her nearest and dearest. “As soon as the cake had been cut, Diana, her sisters, Sarah, the younger bridesmaids and I disappeared upstairs to help her change into her pink going-away outfit, designed by David Sassoon of Bellville Sassoon,” Hicks recalled to Harper’s Bazaar, adding, “The mood was girly and giggly.”

The British author said that the new royal also gave them a sweet parting gift. “Diana thanked us and gave us each a kiss and a present: a pretty gold-rimmed Halcyon Days china box. Inside were two of the silkworms that had spun the silk for her wedding dress.”

From there, she said goodbye to the rest of her guests and climbed into an open landau carriage, which Prince Charles’ brothers, Prince Andrew and Prince Edward, had decorated with a “just married” sign, according to the BBC.