Deciding what to keep and what to let go of is one of life’s toughest decisions. While decluttering, the pressure to make a choice can feel overwhelming and absolute. Thankfully, Redditors have taken it upon themselves to share some helpful questions that steer the ship on what to get rid of when decluttering—and they seriously make things so much easier. With a little bit of help, you might be able to toss out items you’ve been holding onto for years. Here, we’ve gathered a few smart questions that will make letting go so much more manageable.
When Was the Last Time You Used It?
It can be hard to recall the last time you used an item, but the more distant its last use was, the more likely it’s just contributing to clutter. If you’re always losing it or having a hard time finding it again, it might be time to simply let it go.
Do You Want to Inventory This Item?
Inventory requires consistent upkeep, so it’s important to note whether you’re willing to routinely maintain the item over the years. Do you want to deal with it in the future, or would you rather toss it out? Is it really worth adding to your inventory?
Would Someone Be More Thrilled to Find It Than You Are to Own It?
“Would someone else be thrilled to find this on eBay/in a charity shop/on a donation group?” one Redditor writes. “More thrilled than I am to currently own it?” If the answer’s yes—or if you’re simply bored of an item for no particular reason—it might be time to donate it to your local thrift store.
Do You Use It More Than Once a Year?
While certain seasonal items—like Christmas wreaths, Halloween costumes, and holiday glassware—might only be used once a year, other non-seasonal items might be given the same treatment. These items can be added to the donation list for someone else to enjoy.
Are You Hanging Onto It Just Because of the Memory?
Letting go of sentimental items can be hard, especially if it’s gifted by someone who’s no longer around or reminds you of a special memory. And while it’s totally OK to hold onto these kinds of items, others might just be adding clutter. It’s helpful to be slightly discerning when deciding what to keep and what to toss, even when it’s reminiscent of an older era or good memories.