The holiday season is finally here, and if you’re looking for gift options for loved ones, why not consider something slightly out of pocket? Yes, gifting someone a sex toy can feel a little weird, but think about it: your overworked best friend might appreciate it more than another candle, your friend trying to revive their relationship might thank you later, and gifting it to a partner? That’s a shared experience waiting to happen.
This crossed my mind after seeing the Nancy Lem Clitoral Massager ($89, originally $159) fly off the shelves during Black Friday — literally one sold every 35 seconds. I haven’t tried it myself, but with nearly half a million people already owning this little lemon, clearly there’s something to the hype.
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Lem looks more like quirky décor than a sex toy, which is part of its charm. It was designed with beginners in mind, yet people who are far from beginners seem to love it too. It makes pleasure feel approachable instead of intimidating.
The toy uses air-suction technology (the kind that usually gets rave reviews) for a slow, intentional build-up that mimics oral pleasure. The design feels thoughtful, from the softness to the way it fits in your hand.
What I like about Lem, even from the outside looking in, is that it doesn’t scream “adult toy.” It’s playful, discreet, and giftable. Leave it on a shelf and no one would blink. But it still has the features people care about: 12 intensity settings, a whisper-quiet motor, and waterproofing for anyone who enjoys a bath moment. Beginner-friendly, but clearly built for all experience levels.
So if you’re looking for a holiday gift that’s actually memorable, this one might be worth considering. It’s unique, fun, and guaranteed to spark a conversation in the best way. Nancy is offering 25 percent off sitewide right now, which makes it even easier to add a little citrus to someone’s (or your own) stocking. Just use the code POP25 at checkout before January 1st.
Balim Tezel (she/her) is a shopping updates editor at PS and the founder of Maison des Nus, a New York-based affordable luxury brand. She graduated from Northwestern University’s Medill School of Journalism.
